"I never considered a difference of opinion in politics, in religion, in philosophy, as cause for withdrawing from a friend."
I was recently told that if this president-elect bothers me so much I might need therapy. You know what? It very well could be the case. In fact, I would guess there will be a huge rise in therapist bills for the section of society that has a hard time with this man as their leader.
But I would like to explain something about the majority (I think) of those feeling discontent. Don't stop reading! Hear me out.
We are not against you.
This is not a Hilary vs. Trump issue. This is not about who voted for each candidate. This is not about rejecting election results or Trump himself as our next president. We know that you, our friends and family, are intelligent, thoughtful citizens who heard a message that spoke to you. I have had long conversations with many people trying to understand each other (the majority of my friends do not share my point of view).
The people who will march on January 21st are not doing it to overturn an election but to show a unified presence to an administration that has displayed clear discrimination towards women's rights, the LGBTQ, our Muslim community, and our immigrants.
The discontent comes from the language that is now deemed okay, even presidential. Bullying, insults, racism, aggression against women and threats toward whole sections of our society now have a place in acceptable conversation. I recently heard of a middle school student in my district saying horrible things to a Muslim boy because, in his mind, this boy deserved and even required it due to his religion.
No one is out to overthrow the government but instead, make sure the government knows there are serious concerns.
If President-Elect Trump succeeds, if he makes positive change, we will all be the better for it. That, on my part, would be an unexpected surprise and I will admit my concerns were wrong. Unfortunately many are seeing the potential damage and isn't it the right of all American citizens to raise a peaceful voice and ask to be heard, considered, and protected?
When my daughter found out I was not taking her to the march in Washington she cried. I HATE crowds and I worry for her safety. But in swoops Step-Dan willing to make arrangements with an old college roommate for housing and buy train tickets because Lily's heart was broken (even though I told him I've seen her get over things before). So my daughter and I are going to DC. It will be my first time taking an actual physical stand for something and my daughter will see a historical event.
But when and if I post about it don't tell me to pull up my big girl pants and get over it. That is not what this is about and simplifying it to such an extent is missing the point. This is not about dividing the nation. This is about protecting those that need a voice if only by showing up as a visual presence, a reminder that we still care about these issues and hope they will be taken seriously.
Once again, I want to be clear, what you as a Trump supporter are seeing in social media or news sources (for the most part-I won't blanket statement) is not about people rejecting Trump as President. That is a set fact. It's not about disagreeing personally with each other. That has happened in every election in history and will continue unless we move to a dictatorship. It is about people trying to protect each other and if you can't understand that, appreciate the goodness of the message at its heart, then I'm at a loss.
But we can still be friends.
"It is not our differences that divide us. It is our inability to recognize, accept, and celebrate those differences."